1. Tell the team what you have in mind.
Choose your preferred Colorado city, a few possible dates, and the questions you need answered. Create or sign in to your Colorado member profile and send your request. The team reviews it privately, and you can follow updates in your dashboard.
A request is an introduction, not a reservation. The organizer still needs to discuss the arrangements with you. Do not assume that a city listing means a particular date or hotel is available.
2. Agree on the details.
Before making plans, clarify the location, meeting time, intended group, participation expectations, and any arrangements you need to make yourself. Ask what screening or checks are actually carried out; do not infer a guarantee from marketing language.
Discuss privacy and media boundaries in advance. Agree on whether a partner is involved, how to contact the organizer, and what happens if plans change.
3. Meet at hotel happy hour.
The introduction takes place in a hotel bar or lounge. It is an opportunity to meet the group, ask questions, and decide whether you feel comfortable. Drinking is optional. You do not owe anyone participation because you attended or because a room was arranged.
Know where you are meeting and keep your own way to leave. Hotel guests and staff are not participants; keep conduct appropriate for a shared public space.
4. Choose whether to continue.
The plan may include a private-room gathering afterward, but moving there is optional. Everyone must freely agree, and anyone can decline, pause, or leave. Agreement to meet does not create agreement to any sexual activity.
Discuss relevant boundaries and expectations directly. If anything is unclear, stop and ask. The first-time guide offers a short list of practical questions.
5. Keep communication open.
If your plans or preferences change, tell the organizer. Afterward, you can use the contact route to raise questions or concerns. A past visit does not create an obligation to return.